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Samarel Sex Advice | Answered / edited by Deni |
| Sex Advice #1 |
| How to Squirt |
Dear Deni,
I would like to teach myself how to squirt, but my only problem
is that when I am about to cum, I push down as if to release and
then before anything cums out, I pass out. It is frustrating but
something I want to badly achieve before I get married so then I
can surprise him on our first night together.
How I start is by rubbing my clitoris ever so softly almost as if
I am brushing across it, then I slowly begin to apply more pressure
as I come closer to climax. My hands start to shake, my legs twitch,
and then before you know it I have passed out in a moment of weakened
lust. Could you possibly help me?
Thanks,
Intended to please A.W. |
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Dear Ashley,
I can understand your frustration. In order to squirt we must be
intensely turned on, but the ability to squirt our sensuous liquids
for our lover requires that we must not pass out. Although, honestly,
I am not sure which is more pleasurable. Either result will please
our lover greatly because it speaks so wonderfully of our arousal
with our lover.
For myself, if I decide that I wish to squirt, I must monitor how
turned on I am. Then, when I have that feeling of fullness I have
to stop any further stimulation and simply press down with my squirting
muscles.
As I have pointed out in previous tips, if you are concerned about
whether you’re feeling of fullness is urine or your love elixir,
just make sure to void your bladder before you start to sex yourself,
or your lover starts to pleasure you. Then you are free to press
down in certainty that it is your love juices that is making you
feel so full down there.
But knowing just “how much is enough” stimulation may
take a bit of practice.
Look at it this way, if you stop too soon, all you have to do is
start up again. But if you stop too late, as you pointed out, you
pass out.
Learn just how far is “enough” for you. That may mean
lots of trial attempts, each of which is highly pleasurable! It
is a “can’t lose” situation for you!
Your sexuality speaks highly of your healthy attitudes toward sex.
Being a highly sexual creature, you have few if any inhibitions.
That is a wonderful start to a person’s sex life. Your ability
to respond easily, your ability to rise to your peak with great
joy, will make your love life highly fulfilling for both you and
your lovers.
Keep up the good work that you have started, sweetheart. Monitor
your arousal and learn to know just when you’re about to explode,
then push hard and enjoy our ultimate reward.
Deni | Samarel Sex Advice Editor
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